Humility is rarely sought in the world’s culture. Unlike biblical wisdom, the world values pride, independence, and superiority. “Worldly values tend to have the following characteristics in common: they’re always changing (subject to fashion); they’re generally self-centered, so they’re too narrow to provide a foundation for a broad, comprehensive, and meaningful outlook on life; and they lure their devotees into endless, fruitless striving (Ecclesiastes 1:2-3). [In addition, worldly values] provide no sense of certainty; the rewards they promise are neither lasting nor truly satisfying; [and] as a result, they create anxiety and internal tension.” (1) God’s Word cautions us against all this, encouraging us to be humble and wise. “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.” (Proverbs 11:2)
Biblical Humility
“Because humility involves the realistic appraisal of one’s place in relationship to others, it promotes a wise sense of the true order of things.” (2) In his book, “Humility,” Andrew Murray comments: “The highest lesson a believer has to learn is humility. Do you want to grow in holiness? Then remember: the road to holiness passes through humbling experiences. You could have intense consecration, fervent zeal, and deep experiences, but unless you receive God’s special dealings to humble you, you could grow prideful and self-important. Let’s never forget that the highest holiness is the deepest humility. And humility only comes if we give God permission to lead us through whatever discipline He requires to train us. He is our Faithful Lord…He watches over us with a jealous, loving care, to keep us from getting puffed up by our revelations of Him. If we start becoming proud or pompous, He shows us our evil and brings us experiences to deliver us from it. In trial and weakness and trouble, He seeks to bring us low, until we learn that His grace is enough for us and take pleasure in what makes and keeps us humble. His power working through weakness, His presence filling and satisfying our emptiness, becomes the secret of a humility that will never fail.” (3)
Proverbs on Humility
“There are six things that the Lord hates, seven that are an abomination to him: haughty eyes…” (Proverbs 6:16-17a)
“I, wisdom, dwell with prudence, and I find knowledge and discretion. The fear of the Lord is hatred of evil. Pride and arrogance and the way of evil and perverted speech I hate.” (Proverbs 8:12-13)
“The Lord tears down the house of the proud but maintains the widow’s boundaries.” (Proverbs 15:25)
“The fear of the Lord is instruction in wisdom, and humility comes before honor.” (Proverbs 15:33)
“Everyone who is arrogant in heart is an abomination to the Lord; be assured, he will not go unpunished.” (Proverbs 16:5)
“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall. It is better to be of a lowly spirit with the poor than to divide the spoil with the proud.” (Proverbs 16:18-19)
“Before destruction a man’s heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor.” (Proverbs 18:12)
“Haughty eyes and a proud heart, the lamp of the wicked, are sin.” (Proverbs 21:4)
“‘Scoffer’ is the name of the arrogant, haughty man who acts with arrogant pride.” (Proverbs 21:24)
“The reward for humility and fear of the Lord is riches and honor and life.” (Proverbs 22:4)
“Do not put yourself forward in the king’s presence or stand in the place of the great,
for it is better to be told, ‘Come up here,’ than to be put lower in the presence of a noble.” (Proverbs 25:6-7)
“With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone.” (25:15)
“Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him.” (Proverbs 26:12)
“Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring. Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.” (Proverbs 27:1-2)
“A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.” (Proverbs 29:11)
“One’s pride will bring him low, but he who is lowly in spirit will obtain honor.” (Proverbs 29:23)
Additional Scripture:
“But you are not to be called rabbi, for you have one teacher, and you are all brothers. And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven. Neither be called instructors, for you have one instructor, the Christ. The greatest among you shall be your servant. Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.” (Matthew 23:8-12)
“One’s pride will bring him low, but he who is lowly in spirit will obtain honor.” (29:23)
“Whosoever humbles himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:4)
“Now [Jesus] told a parable to those who were invited, when he noticed how they chose the places of honor, saying to them, ‘When you are invited by someone to a wedding feast, do not sit down in a place of honor, lest someone more distinguished than you be invited by him, and he who invited you both will come and say to you, ‘Give your place to this person,’ and then you will begin with shame to take the lowest place. But when you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place, so that when your host comes he may say to you, ‘Friend, move up higher.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at table with you. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”’ (Luke 14:11)
Will we embrace God’s call to be humble by saturating our minds with Scripture, rather than worldly (even Super Bowl) fanaticism? “Get wisdom, and whatever you get, get insight. Prize her highly, and she will exalt you; she will honor you if you embrace her.” (Proverbs 4:7-8)
Notes:
- Focus on the Family, Influence of Worldly Values: Christian Versus Worldly Values, https://learn.alivetothrive.com/lesson/christian-versus-worldly-values/
- The Reformation Study Bible, Proverbs 11:2, Reformation Trust Publishing (Ligonier Ministries), Sanford, Fl., 2015.
- Murray, Andrew, Humility in Contemporary English, HeavenReigns.com, 2003.
February 6, 2023